I’ve never been one for resolutions, but I do like to launch each New Year with a sense of clarified vision.
Many of us believe our resolutions fail because we have “bitten off more than we can chew.” But the opposite is closer to the truth: our resolutions don’t go far enough. It’s not so much that our goals are difficult as that they are too limited in scope.
Consider the following January cliches: “Jog three miles a day.” “Lose ten pounds.” “Read a new book each week.” “No more yelling at my kids...” These kinds of ideas are resolved and failed in rapid succession by thousands upon thousands of well-meaning people. Maybe we're a part of that crowd...?
Simply put, goals like this remain mostly unattainable because they’re attempted outside the greater context of a unifying vision. In short, goals work better when they are subordinate to a deeper sense of purpose.
- A pledge to healthy living is more likely to lead to daily exercise and lost pounds than “I resolve to lose weight.”
- The spiritual discipline of simplicity will result in less waste than a promise to “spend less at the mall.”
- A commitment to love my family is more effective than “less yelling….”
Well, no. My goal at the beginning of this New Year is to own a renewed sense of faithfulness to God’s purpose for my life. I’d LOVE to reach more people via this column; but, outside the context of an authentic faith, it’s not important at all.
The specific goals that we tend to isolate each January are simply clues to a deeper and more complete story that remains to be told. Cosmetic resolutions fail to stand the test of time.
- Deal with spiritual poverty, and the drinking will take care of itself.
- Address depression, and overeating might not be such a temptation.
- “Curse less in front of the kids” would become “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” (Psalm 51:10)
My prayer for 2010 is this:
- May we all turn our hearts, our wills, and our intentions to that which is consequential and solid.
- May we remember not only who we are, but who we belong to.
- May our faithfulness be evident.
- And may we live in terms of the purpose for which we were created.
Love and blessings - always - DEREK
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